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Six Giving Doors — or stages of
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Many members feel threatened by the prospect of asking
the congregation for annual pledges to support the ongoing work of the
church. Some are frustrated by lack of support during previous
pledge campaigns. The following thoughts from Kennon L. Callahan
in his book "Giving and Stewardship in an Effective Church: A Guide
for Every Member" (Jossey-Bass, 1992) offers some insights into
giving and pledging to the church.
Stewardship is a growth process. “People move
through distinctive 'doors' or stages in their giving pilgrimage as they
learn to give generously. Most people do not move directly from
dating to marriage overnight.” Some people move through all six
doors while others never get past the first one or two doors.
Rather than place all our expectations for giving in the category of the
annual “estimate of giving” we need to be sensitive to this
developmental and motivational reality.
“Each of these giving doors can be wisely and
constructively opened in your congregation when giving is approached
with a sense of rhythm, balance and planning. Such constructive
planning will allow you to offer a wide range of people the opportunity
to “come on board” where they are best able to do so. . . ”
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Stage 1 - Spontaneous Giving —
People give on impulse without planning. In fact, while this is a
“stage” it is also an on-going aspect of our motivational process.
Even long-time givers are often inspired by the immediacy of an appeal
that arises out of the blue. A spontaneous giving invitation
focuses on a worthwhile cause. It may be a major advance that has newly
emerged. It may be a sudden need or emergency — a family in a desperate
plight, people in need due to a hurricane, flood or famine. The
important point is that it is a major, worthwhile need, not something
like building a tool shed out behind the church.
The focus is on generous giving. Do not ask for “whatever
you can afford to give.” That raises the question, “Can I afford to give
anything?” and reduces the matter to what one is or is not able to
afford. The focus on generous giving helps people to discover their own
deeper resources in life and to know, “ Sure, I can help. Sure, I’d be
glad to give.”
“When we fail to invite people to give generously and
spontaneously, we ignore all the people who, at this moment in their
giving development, are primarily at a spontaneous stage of giving. The
money they would have given is lost.” Spontaneous giving
opportunities should be offered with a focus on the key motivations of
compassion and community.
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Stage 2 - Special Planned Giving
— This is giving toward a special cause that has long
term significance for God’s mission. The focus should be more on
ministry than mortar, more to do with people and groups and less to do
with debt retirement or servicing.
One Great Hour of Sharing and other special offerings
promoted through the PC(USA) are of this type. However, not more than
four of this type of special giving opportunities should be promoted.
There needs to be a balance and never an overlapping promotion of these
throughout the year.
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Stage 3 - Worship Giving — It may
be an obvious statement, but increasing worship participation will
increase worship giving. The focus isn’t on increasing membership but on
increasing the numbers of people actually attending and engaging in the
worship life of the congregation.
By intentionally focusing on specific life stage issues,
human hurts and hopes, community interests and concerns, and major
mission groupings we can develop worship services that will attract not
only more of our own members but also their friends to attend these
worship services. Develop several of these special services
throughout the year. Examples of these services are:
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Acknowledging those in the First Year of Retirement
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Families with Young Children
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Those who have lost a
loved one during the past year
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Homecoming Sunday
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Earth Care Sunday
The more people participate the more generously they
give. “It is not necessary to stress giving on a community Sunday. The
focus should be on helping people with their lives.”
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Stage 4 -
Short-Term Project Giving — Because people are at
different places on their pilgrimage of giving, some are motivated to
give very generously to short-term projects. While some prefer to
give sacrificially to the annual budget which supports all the church’s
ministries, others prefer to target their giving toward specific causes.
If we don’t offer these opportunities we may miss these gifts altogether
as well as fail in our efforts to lead these members farther along their
giving journey
Rather than
focusing on building issues or debt reduction, it is best to offer a mix
of three to five projects which include ministry oriented concerns such
as development of a new staff position or support of projects in less
affluent neighborhoods or countries.
Many
churches experience increased levels of giving to the annual budget from
families once they have completed their pledges to such projects due to
their realization of their capacity to give as well as their deepened
commitment to and understanding of the congregation’s mission.
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Stage 5 -
Annual Budget Giving —
“People give in direct relation to ways they receive
their income. They cannot give any other way. The focus on regular
giving to the budget is a relatively recent phenomenon for local
congregations.” In earlier times when were a more agrarian
society, many congregations received the bulk of their income after the
Fall harvest season.
“Regrettably, the finance committees of some congregations are
preoccupied with annual budget giving. Since it is their responsibility
to develop the annual budget, their focus becomes centered solely on
this source of giving.”
While it is
important to the continuity of our ministries to do annual budgeting and
raise support for these annual expenses, the more important task is to
help our members move forward in their journey of generosity. When
we close all other giving doors and only leave open the door of annual
giving, we are doing our people a great disservice in this regard.
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Stage 6 -
Enduring Giving —
The Christian business consultant, Steven Covey says that
everyone has three basic desires in life: “to live, to love and to leave
a legacy.”
Each church
should have policies around memorial gifts which clearly state what
needs are suitable for such giving and solicit for these rather than
take a merely passive stance, ending up with numerous accounts with
funds designated for programs and projects which the congregation may
not see as supporting their mission.
Endowment
policies should be developed with a clear mission focus and promoted for
people to give both during their lives as well as in their estate
planning.
Kennon
Callahan invites us to “look at giving through the eyes of the giver,
not through the eyes of those who are only focused on support for the
annual budget.”
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